November 20, 2007Home Life > Sad News for Friends of Marty ClemonsJust got the word through Arlene, Cecil, and the U.S. Internet mailing list that Marty Clemons died in an accident tonight. This is a big shock. Melissa and I went to a string of July 4th parties and private fireworks shows at his place. Marty was a great guy. It's hard to describe a nice guy like him. Kind hearted as he could be on the outside, but tough as nails on the inside. Some time around the U.S. Internet IPO/buyout/sell off he was in a bad car wreck. The kind of car wreck that either kills you or sends you to the hospital for a long stay. For him it was the latter. He recovered from that and eventually wound up at IdleAire with some other USIT folks. Then he had a tough time for a while taking care of his elderly mother, who had Alzheimer's. Then his mom passed away, and that's never easy. Not long after that he lost his brother Frank. Marty was doing really well lately. He was in good spirits, paid off his land and house, and had bought another house and piece of land adjacent to the Bar30 in the DuPont community in Sevier County. He was moving into the new place (the Buzzard's Roost) to make room for other family members to move into his house. He had fought off a forest fire there around the same time as the San Diego County fires. The accident today occurred while he was using a tractor on his new land. A horrible truth of living is that bad things can happen to good people. Marty died alone, which isn't what anyone would have wanted for him, and possibly in pain, and likewise. I hate thinking about that. That isn't what he deserved and it hurts to think about it. Facing reality isn't much fun sometimes. This was one of hist last emails, sent in September. This gives a pretty good idea of who Marty was and it's the way I'll remember him. OK, here is the story for those who have not heard, or have heard and wondered: PS: I have a new dog. Funeral details once I get them. Posted by lesjones | TrackBackComments
We'll miss you Marty. :( Posted by: Arlene at November 21, 2007 Daddy will be missed greatly. I have not balled this much, well in a very long time, if ever. I love him so much. Angela - if there's anything at all that Scott and I can do please don't hesitate to ask. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Marty was an amazing soul... too good for this earth I suppose. I feel robbed, but I know that Marty had recently come to center and reclaimed the joys in his life. Though right now I feel more selfish and just wish he was here. He was like a father to both Scott and I and never far from our hearts. It's definitely a reminder to tell those you love how much you appreciate them. I was lucky enough to share some of that with Marty at the bonfire - even if now I can think of 1,000 things I wish I had added. I can't say enough about that man... Right now I just ache. Posted by: sera. at November 21, 2007There's a whole big family of people affected by Marty's passing. None of us are really worth a dime today around the office. I've seen people upset today who aren't the kind of folks normally given to displays of emotion. But this one is hard enough to crack the toughest shells. A mind, a heart, a friend - what all we've lost and what all we've gained on account of Marty. There will be a memorial service for Daddy (Marty) here this Friday at 3pm down in the field at Bar30. It was his wish to be creamated, and his ashes spread in the field. Please spread the word to all of his friends and loved ones that I may not have contact with. Come help us celebrate his life, and mourn the passing of that life. He was a great man, and will always be remembered as such. Thank you all for your support, love and prayers. Posted by: Angela M at November 21, 2007I forgot to mention above that the memorial service will be completely casual. He would have liked it that way. He hated to dress up. He was always in tshirt and pants arround the ranch. Just dress as you would coming to one of his bonfire parties. This is his last bonfire. Bring your own chair, byob, just as he always had it. Thank you again for everything I'm sorry to hear this and it makes the Holiday mournful. Farm and ranch equipment can be dangerous, I had an "incident" with a rototiller once that left me feeling damn lucky to be alive, and also not severely maimed. The phone calls and emails I've had the last 24 hours have been filled with the memory of an incredible man. I will never be as good a man as he was. I cannot love unconditionally as he did. I do not have it in me to be as open and caring as Marty. But he always saw me as being those things and for that I am a better man than I could have been without him. Posted by: Cec at November 21, 2007
-Ellen Brenneman- Posted by: Bob at November 21, 2007There is a guestbook with the online obituary. http://www.legacy.com/knoxnews/GB/GuestbookView.aspx?PersonId=98390296 Posted by: jack lail at November 22, 2007Post a comment
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