November 20, 2007

Home Life > Sad News for Friends of Marty Clemons

Just got the word through Arlene, Cecil, and the U.S. Internet mailing list that Marty Clemons died in an accident tonight.

This is a big shock. Melissa and I went to a string of July 4th parties and private fireworks shows at his place.

Marty was a great guy. It's hard to describe a nice guy like him. Kind hearted as he could be on the outside, but tough as nails on the inside. Some time around the U.S. Internet IPO/buyout/sell off he was in a bad car wreck. The kind of car wreck that either kills you or sends you to the hospital for a long stay. For him it was the latter.

He recovered from that and eventually wound up at IdleAire with some other USIT folks. Then he had a tough time for a while taking care of his elderly mother, who had Alzheimer's. Then his mom passed away, and that's never easy. Not long after that he lost his brother Frank.

Marty was doing really well lately. He was in good spirits, paid off his land and house, and had bought another house and piece of land adjacent to the Bar30 in the DuPont community in Sevier County. He was moving into the new place (the Buzzard's Roost) to make room for other family members to move into his house. He had fought off a forest fire there around the same time as the San Diego County fires.

The accident today occurred while he was using a tractor on his new land. A horrible truth of living is that bad things can happen to good people. Marty died alone, which isn't what anyone would have wanted for him, and possibly in pain, and likewise. I hate thinking about that. That isn't what he deserved and it hurts to think about it. Facing reality isn't much fun sometimes.

This was one of hist last emails, sent in September. This gives a pretty good idea of who Marty was and it's the way I'll remember him.


OK, here is the story for those who have not heard, or have heard and wondered:

I am no longer employed with IdleAire, as of last month. This is how it came to be.

I recently acquired a new home -- The Buzzards Roost -- at the top and far side of the ridge behind the Bar30. I was in the process of moving myself up there but did not have communications established yet when a wildfire ignited at the bottom of the cove below me, origin unknown. With the drought and the strong wind, the Roost was severely threatened. For six days and nights I battled a California style inferno to protect my property. With no communications, I could not call for help or let anyone know where I was, so I battled alone.

After the fifth day, IdleAire HR invoked the job abandonment rule: five days no show, no call. I was terminated.

That was the only shabby part. I've been ready to leave for three years, and offered my resignation regularly. But they refused to accept it. Those who count knew they only had to ask, and I would have happily left. It just seemed so petty for HR to play the silly corporate game.

In any case, I had been in their wake for 10 years, since I slipped in the back door at USIT. I was due for a sabbatical, and I'm taking it through the end of the year. Maybe a while longer. It's time to do something for myself for a change. I'm taking care of me, and working leisurely at my projects at the ranch, and refocusing on my own aspirations.

Net result was the same, regardless of the route that brought me here. It's about right for Scorpio.

I'm OK, and enjoying myself immensely, but I am not overexerting, and I am conserving.

I WILL be celebrating on the Saturday the 10th. I have plenty to celebrate. It will be a combination house-warming and mortgage-burning. The Bar30 is paid for, even though I now have a new obligation for the Roost. There is plenty of wood to burn, and the Jolly Roger must be raised.

However, this year it will not be of the scale it has been in recent times. Not an open invitation event. I want my best friends around me, the charter members of the Bar30 who have always been here to share it with me. Most of those are on this mailing list, but the others who regularly come from out-of-state will be here.

For the sake of time, energy and budget, I won't do gumbo. Instead, the weather keeps calling for a hearty chili. I haven't done that in several years. I'm also going to pass on the keg. The group will be smaller and my consumption has declined. I can't kill a keg before it goes bad. That would be alcohol abuse of the worst kind.

I hope you can come early enough in the day to explore the new territory before dark. I've started working on the trails again.

I'll follow up later this week when I have a better feel for logistics.

Marty

PS: I have a new dog.


Funeral details once I get them.

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Comments

We'll miss you Marty. :(

Posted by: Arlene at November 21, 2007

Daddy will be missed greatly. I have not balled this much, well in a very long time, if ever. I love him so much.
I wanted all that are reading to know that he did not suffer. The tire came down on his torso. 2,000lbs of tractor....it was instant. He would not have felt it but for a split second, if that even.
In his last days, as you can tell by his letter, he was very happy and at peace. He cought up on alot of reading he had been wanting to do. He spent the whole day Sunday with his grandbabies. They where a sorce of great joy in his life. My last memory of him, he ws smiling, and happier than I have seen him in a LONG time, standing in my kitchen.
He has told several people over the last few weeks that if he died now.. he would die happy. One has to wonder if he knew. I know that he was at peace, and his heart light.
Daddy was a sorce of great joy, and good times. He was loved by so many people. He truely was a wonderful man. He lived a hard life. But I know in my heart that he is at peace now.
I ask that all that read this to please pray for us and our family, as we go through this. If you have a place where you can plant a flower, or a tree, please do so in his honar. He would like that. Thank you everyone.
---Angela aka Daddy's "Little Girl"

Posted by: Angela M at November 21, 2007

Angela - if there's anything at all that Scott and I can do please don't hesitate to ask. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Marty was an amazing soul... too good for this earth I suppose. I feel robbed, but I know that Marty had recently come to center and reclaimed the joys in his life. Though right now I feel more selfish and just wish he was here. He was like a father to both Scott and I and never far from our hearts. It's definitely a reminder to tell those you love how much you appreciate them. I was lucky enough to share some of that with Marty at the bonfire - even if now I can think of 1,000 things I wish I had added. I can't say enough about that man... Right now I just ache.

Posted by: sera. at November 21, 2007

There's a whole big family of people affected by Marty's passing. None of us are really worth a dime today around the office. I've seen people upset today who aren't the kind of folks normally given to displays of emotion. But this one is hard enough to crack the toughest shells.

A mind, a heart, a friend - what all we've lost and what all we've gained on account of Marty.

Posted by: Chris Range at November 21, 2007

There will be a memorial service for Daddy (Marty) here this Friday at 3pm down in the field at Bar30. It was his wish to be creamated, and his ashes spread in the field. Please spread the word to all of his friends and loved ones that I may not have contact with. Come help us celebrate his life, and mourn the passing of that life. He was a great man, and will always be remembered as such. Thank you all for your support, love and prayers.

Posted by: Angela M at November 21, 2007

I forgot to mention above that the memorial service will be completely casual. He would have liked it that way. He hated to dress up. He was always in tshirt and pants arround the ranch. Just dress as you would coming to one of his bonfire parties. This is his last bonfire. Bring your own chair, byob, just as he always had it. Thank you again for everything

Posted by: Angela M at November 21, 2007

I'm sorry to hear this and it makes the Holiday mournful. Farm and ranch equipment can be dangerous, I had an "incident" with a rototiller once that left me feeling damn lucky to be alive, and also not severely maimed.
My condolences.

Posted by: DirtCrashr at November 21, 2007

The phone calls and emails I've had the last 24 hours have been filled with the memory of an incredible man. I will never be as good a man as he was. I cannot love unconditionally as he did. I do not have it in me to be as open and caring as Marty. But he always saw me as being those things and for that I am a better man than I could have been without him.

Posted by: Cec at November 21, 2007


And think of him as living
in the hearts of those he touched...
for nothing loved is ever lost--
and he was loved so much.

-Ellen Brenneman-

Posted by: Bob at November 21, 2007

There is a guestbook with the online obituary.

http://www.legacy.com/knoxnews/GB/GuestbookView.aspx?PersonId=98390296

Posted by: jack lail at November 22, 2007
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